As this year hurtles toward its demise, we see value in
reflecting while we contemplate the coming of 2019. Here, therefore, are our
individual reflections on 2018.
Rob’s thoughts:
As many who know me understand, owing to having been a
speech teacher, I often think in threes. Therefore, three reflections on 2018:
speech teacher, I often think in threes. Therefore, three reflections on 2018:
- Managing a career switch. As I related in this space on June 22, 2018, I’m turning my professional focus from law practice to writing. I have fiction and nonfiction projects underway, I’m in a writing group, and my novelist daughter (www.BiancaSloane.com) serves as my coach and mentor. I believe I’m making progress, but the enormity of the task sometimes overwhelms me. More than once I’ve asked if this falls into the category of “seemed like a good idea at the time.” Still, tackling the challenge energizes me and I remind myself I shouldn’t belittle what I have accomplished.
- The spiritual journey continues. As I also wrote here this year (September 6), I’ve found a spiritual home
- Confidence in American institutions. Many progressive friends lament the state of our politics, given our divisions Donald Trump's presidency. In 2018, Democrats reclaimed the House of Representatives and the country reclaimed the House of Representatives and the country began seeing the fruits of Special Counsel Robert Mueller’s work. Both renewed my confidence ridding the nation of this cancer, whether through impeachment or merely voting him out in 2020, will become one of our finest hours.
Woodson’s reflections:
In reflecting on 2018, I catalog my thoughts under “Family”,
“Faith” and “Future.”
Family: Hope and I have always dreamed of our
adult children becoming our best friends.
While that dream remains a work in progress, we believe we have achieved that. During 2018, we celebrated an art exhibit in New York by one child, a graduation from divinity school in Princeton, New Jersey by another, and I spent a “Walker Men’s Weekend” in Mississippi with two sons and two grandsons. These encounters provided safe spaces for sharing past pains and future hopes. We understand our children much better and they better understand us.
While that dream remains a work in progress, we believe we have achieved that. During 2018, we celebrated an art exhibit in New York by one child, a graduation from divinity school in Princeton, New Jersey by another, and I spent a “Walker Men’s Weekend” in Mississippi with two sons and two grandsons. These encounters provided safe spaces for sharing past pains and future hopes. We understand our children much better and they better understand us.
Faith: I remain grateful for our church,
Mosaic Church of Central Arkansas, where men and women of diverse racial, ethnic, and socio-economic backgrounds worship, walk, and work
together as one.
This is my third year leading the church’s Racial, Ethnic, and Cultural
Diversity Circle. The Circle creates a safe place where people of diverse
backgrounds, from within Mosaic and the larger community, can discuss race,
religion, ethnicity, and culture. Through this Circle, I have become friends
with people I wouldn’t have met under any other circumstance.
Future: President Trump’s assaults on our
democratic institutions have increased my awareness of the importance
of these institutions and reminded me we should not take take them for granted. The American press has encouraged me, as it has performed admirably in exercising its responsibility for protecting our democratic institutions and values. While I still believe our country is both a country of men and of laws, I recognize other countries, to a greater or lesser extent, are too. But our democratic form of government provides for the greatest flexibility in correcting misdirection of both men and laws, something I believe the recent mid-term elections demonstrate.
of these institutions and reminded me we should not take take them for granted. The American press has encouraged me, as it has performed admirably in exercising its responsibility for protecting our democratic institutions and values. While I still believe our country is both a country of men and of laws, I recognize other countries, to a greater or lesser extent, are too. But our democratic form of government provides for the greatest flexibility in correcting misdirection of both men and laws, something I believe the recent mid-term elections demonstrate.
I look to the future enthusiastically!
Henry writes:
The kindness of the universe let me
fully live again this year. A cloud of sadness prevailed at times in years just
past, though I don’t wish to remember how many. Yes, there was faith, hope,
prayer, and thankfulness. But, when your spouse, love, lover, friend, and
companion faces life threatening illness, life itself changes. Though joys
remain, shadows loom, creeping into every crevice of time not filled.
We talked, of course, of happy times and good fortune, past
and present, but the future
hung like a dark cloud invading our space, inhibiting the relaxed breath of life. We continued doing familiar things, but endless trips to medical facilities, hours of surgery, significant, repeated recovery times, and procedures sealed us in a suffocating, living envelope intent on crushing our spirits. The thought of losing Pat was a venture into hopelessness, as those twins, belief and unbelief, occupied me.
hung like a dark cloud invading our space, inhibiting the relaxed breath of life. We continued doing familiar things, but endless trips to medical facilities, hours of surgery, significant, repeated recovery times, and procedures sealed us in a suffocating, living envelope intent on crushing our spirits. The thought of losing Pat was a venture into hopelessness, as those twins, belief and unbelief, occupied me.